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Considering adoption

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30 day revocation

Can I meet the new parents?

Can I name my child?

Seeing the child?

Birth father consent

Birth father not in agreement

Parents not in agreement

Letter to the child

Am I adopted?

Child is disabled

Unable to cope post adoption

Glossary
 

Adoption

Adoption is a legal process arranged under the Adoption Act 2009, where legal rights and responsibility for a child are permanently transferred from the birth parents to the child’s adoptive parents. This means that the child is adopted and the birth parents will no longer be the child’s legal parents and the child’s adoptive parents will be the child’s legal parents.

Recent laws introduced in Queensland provide for a more open adoption framework for future adoptions, allowing a degree of openness in an adoption between the child’s family and adoptive family. This will be set out in an adoption plan (see below).

What am I required to do if I am considering adoption as an option with a pregnancy?
At any time during the pregnancy, contact the Adoption Services Queensland unit at the Department of Child Safety, a public hospital social worker, or a private hospital nurse counsellor to discuss the adoption process and how to proceed.

It is also best to notify hospital personnel upon hospital admission that adoption is being considered. This assists hospital staff to be more sensitive to your needs.

How soon or how long after I give birth do I have to decide?
Under the Adoption Act 2009, parents must receive pre-consent counselling before consenting to a child’s adoption. The information provided and discussed during pre-consent counselling will help parents to think through the range of options available for the child’s permanent care and make an informed decision about adoption. Pre-consent counselling usually takes place over a number of interviews. This is to ensure that you have enough time to consider all of the options, including adoption, for securing permanent care for your child.

The earliest time at which the parents can sign an adoption consent form is 30 days after a child’s birth and at least 14 days after pre-consent counselling after the birth.

Legally, any child under 18 years old can be placed for adoption. Generally, children considered for adoption in Queensland are under two years of age.

What will happen to the child during the pre-consent stage of adoption?
Following the birth, the parent/s can have as much or as little contact with the child as they choose. The parent/s can take the child home if they choose, until they are ready to make a decision.

Alternatively, an adoption care agreement will be arranged for the child to be cared for by approved carers while the parent/s considers their options. It is important for parent/s to talk with the hospital social worker about the immediate care arrangements.

At your request, arrangements can be made to visit the child during the pre- consent counselling stage. The levels of contact are determined by the parent/s and they are supported during the process.

Must the father’s consent be obtained prior to the adoption taking place?
Both parents must give their consent in order for a child’s adoption to proceed. The only exception is where the children’s court has made an order dispensing with the need for one or both parents to give their consent (see below).

Can adoption proceed without a parent's consent?
The Adoption Act 2009 allows the Children’s Court to make an order dispensing with a parent’s consent, if the court is satisfied that there are grounds for dispensing with the need for the parent’s consent and it is in the child’s best interests for arrangements for the child’s adoption to continue. The grounds on which the need fro a parent’s consent may be dispensed include:

- when a parent does not have the capacity to consent;
- where the identity or location of a parent cannot be established;
- if the child was conceived as a result of sexual assault;
- where there is an unacceptable risk of harm to the child or parent if the other parent were made aware of the child’s birth or proposed adoption.

What if the birth father wants to stop the adoption?
If the father wants to stop the adoption he needs to apply for a Parenting or Residence Order. This must be done through the Family Court.

The Department of Child Safety must be informed in writing of the father’s intention to apply to the Family Court, before the 30 day revocation period has expired. After the child has been placed with adoptive parents there is currently no legal way that a biological father can obtain custody.

The Department encourages mothers to discuss the birth and adoption decision with both the father and her parents so that an agreement can be reached regarding care of the child, prior to the consent being taken. Grandparents can also apply to the Family Court for a Parenting or Residence Order.

Can I change my mind after signing the adoption consent?
Yes. After giving consent, a birth parent has 30 days to revoke this consent. The child goes into a foster placement for the revocation period.

However the Department of Child Safety does allow contact during the 30 day period. During the 30 day revocation period birth parents are encouraged to:

- keep in contact with their departmental worker, who can arrange visits and discuss how you are feeling about the adoption, and
- receive information from the child’s carers regarding development and progress generally.
 

Only one parent needs to sign a revocation form to stop the adoption.

Can I change my mind after the 30 day revocation period has expired?
After the 30 day revocation period has expired, Adoption Services Queensland will make arrangements for the adoption to proceed. Adoption Services Queensland will make a decision about the prospective adoptive parents and talk to the parents about negotiating an adoption plan.

Once the Adoption order has been made, there is no legal way that a birth parent can get the child back.

If the child cannot be placed with adoptive parents, the Department will consult with the birth parents whether they wish the child to be returned to his/her care.

Children without special needs are almost always placed soon after the 30 days, unless the birth parents request more time to consider their decision.

Will I be able to have contact with the child and adoptive family after an adoption order has been made?
Yes. The Adoption Act 2009 introduced a more open adoption framework for adoptions, allowing a degree of openness in an adoption arrangement before the adopted child turns 18 to be arrived at through agreement between the child’s birth family and the adoptive family. This agreement will be set out in an adoption plan.

What is an adoption plan?
An adoption plan is a written document entered into between a child’s parents and prospective adoptive when they wish there to be in-person contact between the child’s birth family after an adoption order is made. An adoption plan will not be legally enforceable and will not alter the adoptive parents’ role as the child’s only legal parents. Both the birth and adoptive parents can choose whether they wish to have an open adoption and adoption plan. However, an adoption plan will be compulsory where:

- a child’s birth and adoptive families wish to have in-person contact between the child and the child’s birth family after the adoption;
- the child to be adopted is, or has been, a child in care; or
- an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander child is to be adopted by a person or couple from outside his or her community.

Adoption Services Queensland assists parties to negotiate an adoption plan. The adoption plan addresses how contact will happen and the intended nature and frequency of contact.

Is it compulsory to have contact?
No. An adoption plan may not include in- person contact and in some circumstance such contact between the child and birth parents may not be considered. In these circumstances, the adoption plan will be limited to other matters and may include an agreement to exchange non-identifying correspondence via the mailbox system.

What is the mail box system?
Under the Adoption Act 2009, the “Mail Box System” will continue for both open and closed adoptions. This is a system whereby both parties can exchange letters and gifts containing non-identifying only or identifying information depending on the adoption plan agreed by both the adoptive parents and birth parents.

Can I write a letter to the child to be read later in life?
During the 30 day revocation period the birth mother can write a letter to her child explaining why she is placing the child for adoption. This letter should be written for an 8-10 year old.

The birth mother is also encouraged to write a letter to the adoptive parents to introduce herself and let them know if she would like to correspond with them through the mail box system.
If the birth mother wishes to correspond with the adoptive parents throughout the child’s life, the Department will place the child with adoptive parents who are willing to do this.

All letters are read by the Department to ensure they do not contain identifying information. These letters are also kept on file for the child to review after 18 years, if they wish to view their adoption file.

Do I have to see the adopted person if they want to see me?
Identifying information will be available to adult adopted persons and their birth parents after the adopted person turns 18 years of age.

Identifying information will be released upon completion of an application form lodged with the Department of Child Safety, and payment of application fee.

All adoptions after 1 June 1991 are entered into on the understanding that no objections to contact or the release of identifying information can be lodged.

Must my child find out that he or she is adopted?
Yes. The Department of Child Safety encourages adoptive parents to ensure that every adopted child knows that he or she is adopted. This is encouraged to take place as part of the child’s growing up process, and in line with his or her understanding of sexuality.

Can I choose the adoptive parents?
No. However, the Department of Child Safety is committed to matching the adoptive parents as closely to the mother’s preferences as possible. The Department encourages mothers to state their wishes regarding the type of family and will endeavour to honour these wishes where possible.

Can I name my child?
Yes. The mother is encouraged to name her child, as she is required to register her child’s birth before signing the consent form and because the child needs a name until the time of placement with adoptive parents. The adoptive parents do have the right to change the child’s name.

If the mother would like the adoptive parents to keep the child’s name as either a first or second name, the department will try to place the child with adoptive parents who will agree.

What if I have twins?
Siblings and sometimes cousins, where possible are kept together. Twins and multiple births are never separated.

If a woman places another child for adoption, she can request that this child is offered to the family who adopted the first child. If this adoption is not possible, then it is requested that the new adoptive parents keep in close contact with the adoptive parents of the child’s sibling.

What would happen if my child is born severely disabled or requiring special attention of some kind?
Special needs children are often difficult to place with an adoptive family. If suitable adoptive parents are not found, they remain in foster care long-term, as there is no longer institutional care for children with special needs.

What if I find I cannot cope after the adoption?
If a woman is having difficulty coping with the adoption of her child, she may contact the Department of Child Safety to arrange support from a professional counsellor or contact one of the groups listed below.

 

Glossary of Terms:

Adopted person Person adopted by law
Adoptive parentsLegal parents of the adopted person through law. Not the biological parents.
Birth fatherPerson believed to be the biological father
Birth motherBiological mother of child relinquishing child for adoption
Mailbox ProgramThe only means of communication between the adoptive parents and the birth parents, which is monitored by the Department of Communities. (Note: communication of any form is not compulsory)
SiblingsBiological brothers and/or sisters
Special needs children Children with severe disabilities or requiring special attention of some kind.
30 day revocation period The period of time following the written consent to adoption in which the birth mother may change her mind.

Adoption Services - Other States of Australia

The legislation regarding adoption differs in all states and territories in Australia.  To contact Adoption Services in other states:

NSW Department of Community Services
Victoria Department of Human Services

WA Department for Child Protection
Adoption and Family Service Unit of South Australia
Department of Health and Human Services Tasmania
New Zealand

Adoption support services and information about the experience(s) of adoption

Jigsaw (QLD)
Adoption Privacy Protection Group
Link Up (indigenous site)
NSW Post Adoption Support Centre
VANISH-Victorian Adoption Network for Information and Self Help

 


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